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Sunday, 01 March 2009

  • Fin

    Heartaches, heartaches
    My loving you meant only heartaches
    Your kiss was such a sacred thing to me
    I can't believe it's just a burning memory

    Heartaches, heartaches
    What does it matter how my heart breaks
    I should be happy with someone new
    But my heart aches for you

Thursday, 05 February 2009

  • Happy Birthday to Me

    Today, I celebrated my 23rd birthday. I use the word 'celebrate' quite loosely, as the first half of my birthday was spent dealing with the sickness that has plagued me for the last three days. I began feeling better and was able to go into work for a few hours, and later in the evening, my mom gave me a Chocolate, Caramel Turtle Ice Cream Cake. I was with my adorable nephew Tyler, my sister Miranda, mom and Javier. It was simple (and quite last-minute!), but there was nothing but warmth and familial love. It was a very nice, relaxing evening, full of the antics and amusements of 20-month-old Tyler. I was supposed to go out with the marketing department for my birthday lunch this afternoon, but since I was sick, it has been rescheduled for next Thursday at the Daily Grill in downtown. That's when I'll receive a birthday gift from my boss.

    I must say, I like being 23 even though I am not generally fond of odd numbers. I like it because it is a number in succession of itself (2-3). This kind of thing happens only 7 or 8 times in a person's life, so I think it is quite special. I can't wait until I'm 34, 45, 56, 67 and 78 so that I can celebrate my successive number birthdays!

    Goodnight.

Wednesday, 08 October 2008

  • I feel my heart race when you're near me,
    My eyes light up when we talk,
    Butterflies in my stomach when we touch.
    My knees collapse beneath me at the sight of you
    and my limbs turn to jelly when you speak my name.

    Here's to hoping your heart beats as fast as mine, that you feel aglow and wish to collapse into my arms.
    That tears well up at the thought of a future.
    That the butterflies never go away.
    I'll catch you if you fall, because I'm here already.

Monday, 21 July 2008

  • Keep the Tulsa Ballet in Tulsa--NOT Oklahoma City! Tulsa UNITE!

    Just when I thought Oklahoma City couldn't get any worse, I was proven to be wrong.

    Let me explain.

    The ballet company in Oklahoma City, aptly named after the state (Ballet Oklahoma), just like everything else in that town, ended last season with around $400,000 in debt.  Since then, as I learned yesterday, they have approached the Tulsa Ballet for help.  What they have proposed is combining the two ballet companies to form a "state" ballet company, jointly based in Oklahoma City and Tulsa, while both current companies would retain their names.  Tulsa Ballet would still be known as Tulsa Ballet, but when they travel to Oklahoma City to perform, they would be called Ballet Oklahoma. It gets worse. According to the July 20, 2008 Tulsa World article "Ballet in state may be cooperative", "the Tulsa branch would be responsible for performing the mixed-bill programs, while the Oklahoma City branch would have dancers who would perform as part of a regional touring program."

    This is unacceptable, utterly, disgustingly unacceptable.

    As it stands, Tulsa Ballet is one of the foremost ballet companies in the United States and has received national and international acclaim.  Ballet Oklahoma? Not so much.  Tulsa Ballet has received two feature articles in Dance Magazine during the past seven years, has been featured in the New York Times, Pointe Magazine and Dance Europe. In March, 2008, Tulsa Ballet was featured on the cover of Pointe Magazine, a distinction awarded to only one ballet company a year.  In 2002, Portuguese national magazine Semanario declared Tulsa Ballet, "one of the best in the world".  In April, 2008, Tulsa Ballet celebrated reaching their fundraising goal of $17.3 million with the opening of Kivisto Hall, a 300-seat theatre devoted to the creation of new works.

    So there we have it: an internationally-acclaimed, cash-flush ballet company, and a company so disorganized that public support has dwindled to the point of being basically bankrupt.
    It's no wonder Ballet Oklahoma wants help from Tulsa.

    But there's more.

    According to the newsok.com article "Ballet Oklahoma faces uncertain future", "During the second year of the merger, a group of about 10 Oklahoma City-based dancers would tour the state as part of an educational outreach program. By year three, there would be a single board of directors and one name for the new organization."  This is greatly distressing.  It's basically the dissolution of the Tulsa Ballet as we know it, and would mean that the promise that the Tulsa Ballet would retain its name while in Tulsa is essentially moot.  It is also likely that the new state company would probably be based in Oklahoma City.  Believe me, that is how it would end up.

    This, again, is simply unacceptable.  It is NOT, I repeat, NOT the fault of Tulsans that the Oklahoma City ballet company can't attract an audience.  It is NOT the fault of Tulsans that the Oklahoma City ballet is bankrupt.  It is NOT the duty of Tulsans to PAY FOR Oklahoma City's ballet company.  That's basically what's going to happen.  When the two combine, the quite flush Tulsa Ballet will have to compensate for Oklahoma City's financial incompetencies.

    It is a dilution of the Tulsa Ballet, and a move to obtain one of Tulsa's gems solely for Oklahoma City's benefit.  Tulsa Ballet SHOULD NOT become a BRANCH of a state ballet.  What we have in Tulsa is a fantastic company.  It's the CITY'S company, not the state's.  Tulsa built it.  Tulsa supports it.  Oklahoma City seems to feel that these days, anything and everything in the state belongs only to them, and they will do everything in their power to try to accomplish that.

    If this situation were reversed, I can guarantee with one hundred percent certainty that Ballet Oklahoma would not even consider helping.  Tulsa's goodwill is abused in this state.  In an all-too-recent example, Tulsa's support is what landed the deal for the NBA team to come to Oklahoma City.  NBA Commissioner Stern clearly indicated that without Tulsa's proximity, there was no chance that Oklahoma City would have been awarded the team.

    On the subject of the NBA, I find it extremely interesting that the City of Oklahoma City approved $125 million in upgrades for their cheap, little brick box (a.k.a. the Ford Center) to be improved for the NBA, but they can't even support their own ballet company.  It is ridiculous to approach Tulsa for help when they just approved $125 million in upgrades for their defunct arena.  It is outlandish and I will not stand for it.  From the comments on the Tulsa World article, it appears that most other Tulsans won't, either.

    Any time Oklahoma City can't do something on its own, it asks Tulsa to 'pony up' and support them, which Tulsa has always done.  Yet Tulsa has received NO benefit from supporting Oklahoma City's initiatives.  We were asked to support an AMTRAK extension from Dallas to Oklahoma City, and on the promise that Tulsa would soon have rail service too, we did.  That was ten years ago.  Tulsa is still without rail service, and now the Oklahoma City City Council has asked the state legislature to bypass Tulsa in its next extension of rail service, and instead, go north to Wichita, Kansas.

    Oklahoma City and the State Legislature have not lived up to their promises, to their ends-of-the-deals.  They need Tulsa but refuse to support it in any way.

    This morning, I wrote a letter to Marcello Angelini, artistic director of Tulsa Ballet, and the Board of Directors, pleading my case.  A few hour laters, I received a response from Marcello himself:

    Dear Mr. Jeffries,

    In haste, today is a crazy day, as you can imagine.  I can assure you that we are in no way, shape or form considering to water down our wonderful company to help anybody else.  There are decades of great history in Tulsa Ballet, many millions of dollars contributed to us by our community, tens of thousands of fans that come to see our company and have shared in the growth, and now international success, of this organization.  Just in the past few years, we have 17.3 million reasons not to lower our standards (our Integrated Campaign goal was $17.3 million and was met, thanks to the support of the community).  The community has spoken loud and clear to us:  we will support you but we want the best of you.  This is our intention and the spirit of this collaboration.  And no, we are not talking about a “merger” but a COLLABORATION, in which Tulsa Ballet would provide dancers, production and oversight to Ballet Oklahoma .  And we will NOT take over the liabilities of another organization.

    This entire plan is based on the assumption that the joined forces of two communities can actually grow our company to get even better then what it is now.  While I personally love dance, I am offended by bad dance.  I cannot stand to sit through a show of bad dance, I would rather change job and go do something else.  You also have to know that, during the past few years, I have been offered golden jobs, running organizations between two and five times bigger then our Tulsa Ballet.  However, I love this community, I love our company and I cannot separate it from myself.  My kids were born here, Daniela and I have enjoyed a wonderful life here with our fellow Tulsans and we are not going to sit here to see all our 13 years of work, building this company to an international entity, go down.

    I am afraid I can’t say more than that.  But please, trust me on this.  This company is my life, I will not harm it.  The Board, with its large emotional and financial investment in TB, feels exactly the same.

    Thanks so much for your message.  I really, really appreciate hearing from you.

    Marcello

    While it was nice to receive a personal letter so quickly, I feel that it's not entirely truthful.  I would like to trust Mr. Angelini since he has done so many wonderful things with Tulsa Ballet, but it is impossible to trust anything that happens on Oklahoma City's side.  The news articles conflict with parts of his letter to me, and I feel that I and all Tulsans are owed the truth, and we deserve to have a say in whether our own ballet company remains in our own city, that OUR donations don't go to support Oklahoma City.

    Why should they?  Clay Bennett paid how much money for the Seattle SuperSonics, and how much in legal fees? Chesapeake paid how much for a boathouse? OKC spent how much on Ford Center upgrades for a basketball team? And yet they can't support their own ballet? I guess it speaks for the quality.

    Oklahoma City's leaders are a bunch of bandits.  They stole the SuperSonics from Seattle, and now they're trying to steal the ballet from Tulsa.

    This is a matter of principle, which doesn't seem to exist anymore on the west end of the Turner Turnpike.

    Go to Tulsa Ballet's and the City of Tulsa's websites and write them a letter.

Friday, 13 June 2008

  • Car Accident->ER->Friday 13th

    I spent most of my day today in the emergency room at St. John Medical Center.  Grandma and Sammy were in a car accident around 12:30 p.m. and I've been in the ER since about 1:30.

    The accident was her fault; she pulled out in front of a truck that was going around 60 m.p.h. on Highway 11 in Skiatook and the guy t-boned them.  She has a punctured, collapsed lung, several broken ribs, a broken arm, wrist, hand, shoulder, collar bone, and possibly a fractured pelvis.

    She's in the I.C.U. at least for tonight.  She's speaking but in a lot of pain. 

    They thought Sammy's ribs were broken but they're just bruised.

    I'm off to bed now, and will be back at the hospital in the morning.

    Earlier tonight, we found out that grandma's ex husband fell today and broke several bones, and recently had a stroke.

    Oh, and Tim Russert died today.

    What a Friday the 13th...

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    • Name: Daniel
    • Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States
    • Birthday: 2/5/1986
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  • I have a torrid love affair with the arts of all kinds... I play percussion, dabble with piano; I love to sing, I love photography, painting, speaking French, driving to places I've never been, traveling in general... I've been designing houses and entire cities along with studying maps since the age of five, and I doubt I'll ever stop. It's from looking at maps for so long that I can easily find my way through any city on my first trip--I'm always the tour guide/navigator. It's also maybe the source of one of my beliefs: that I'm never truly lost; that there is always another way to reach my destination, and detours are always more memorable. In life, we can never be truly lost if we don't know exactly where we're headed in the first place (and, if we reach our destination, being late doesn't matter). I've always tried to appreciate the smallest things, and because of it I've become extremely observant. I notice and enjoy things most people don't notice or wouldn't even care about.